Do you know what you want in a woman?
First things first, you are not supposed to know what you want in a woman, you need to know what you DON’T want.
There is a lot of bad advice out there directing you in the wrong direction. For example, your friends might tell you to go for women with a certain body type, you might go for women with long hair, medium sized breasts, you might even go for women who are arrows…
The problem with this bad advice is these are just common mistakes EVERY man will do himself, so don’t be like them!
It’s not just about the body either; it’s about the whole personality, and there is nothing wrong with loving yourself first.
If you have a very low opinion of yourself, no matter who you are there is every possibility that you will end up with a woman who is not a good match for you, simply because you don’t think you deserve a great partner, no matter what you look like.
John Gray, an eBook author, mentioned a few characteristics that he looks for in his “ideal partner”.
He mentioned that he looks for independence, confidence, social skills, as well as a good sense of humor, as well as financial stability, as well as ambition and creative thinking.
“If anyone has these traits, he will be great company and a life partner. These are the secret qualities of confident, successful people. And they are also the secret qualities that many people don’t know they have,” says Gray.
John is not romantic, he gives lots of advice, bought the huge deluxe boxed set of the book 100 Thingombars – Reflections of aONYte, to give you a base to start with.
If you’re lazy and want something quick and easy, you can get almost everything you need at amazon for cheap, including the complete guide.
Gray, like many men out there, also talks about men not understanding women, which is not true, it’s solely about the opposite sex.
If you start looking around you, and look at some of the successful relationships with women you know, you will likely see that they are quite content with the person they are. They don’t need anybody else. They’re great with their friends; they’re social, go to the right places, etc.
And if you’re going to meet any beautiful women, you should try to be the same way! After all, you don’t need to be rich, or handsome, or have a lot of friends, to be successful with women. You just need to have the ambition to be like Gollum from Lord of the Rings, and approach them with the confidence of a war ram.
That doesn’t mean you need to be all heartips and smiling a fool, but you should at least present the idea that, deep down inside, you’re a pretty great guy.
And to you fellas who are looking at this article. Let it be a READ.
Take it for what it is, and don’t let it define you, or who you are.
I like to take a quick look at a couple of different profiles. With a huge percentage of men, maybe even half the population, presenting themselves as intelligent, successful, spiritually conscious, and really “likeable guy”. I like to see what sets those guys apart from the average guy.
One profile that stands out is a profile from a guy named shockinglysexually. He talks about going to school to be a doctor, and then going to medical school after entrusting his medical license to an extremely successful woman. This particular profile is a little on the crazy side, but it represents what I’ve found to be a typical profile of someone who is on the will-they-or- wont-they quiz.
Asking them whether or not they are comfortable having a child, whether they have any children already or want any children in the future, and whether or not they’re looking for somebody to cater to them, or both. Not all of us are comfortable with the idea of having a babysitter, much less caring about how they feed their child, though some of us greatly desire that.
